So, as much as things change, they stay the same

Okay, I am not in my 20’s anymore, or my 30’s. When I hit 40, I did not feel like it and from all indications from what others say, I look 30. Maybe that is true. But, what is different about being in my 40’s, is that I have higher standards. Or I would like […]

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So, I have my first date in years…

So…I have a date with this seemingly cool guy. He did mention his rides a few times too many on the phone and I did roll my eyes a bit, but we’ll see. I tend to be so critical of people because it is easier to not form an attachment. Make sense? I talked with […]

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Have people or events made you an emotional eater???

I didn’t consider myself the type to eat when I felt emotionally distraught. I mean I have binged on chocolate before if I was sad and if chocolate was around. But, I don’t go to the store to buy a certain food if I am going through something. I am constantly concerned about calorie intake, […]

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So, I was wondering if it is normal to not have a best friend?

I really have not had a best friend in a long, long time. I kinda thought I did a few times. But I haven’t had that giddy feeling of waiting to call someone to tell them about something amazing/depressing/frustrating outside of a romantic partner, in years. I miss having that one woman who could relate […]

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So, I went to a party with a bunch of diplomats…

The party was fun, but I quickly realized that diplomats are just regular people like me. The person that I went to the party for is a diplomat and he is dating my friend and he is cool. But, I had this expectation of hot single men with gorgeous accents. The party had cool accents, […]

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