So, my mind is so bogged down with thoughts…

So, I can’t focus because I haven’t been writing down my thoughts and opinions and experiences on the regular. I mean 5 months without blogging was torture mentally! I started writing poetry in a journal again for a couple of weeks, but I am the kind of person that needs to rant. And talk. And […]

So, I am trying to stop talking to someone…

I have been talking to my friend on the phone that I found out was married a week ago. Again, the relationship over social media and other communication means was not inappropriate in nature.But, because the person is married and did not speak about it up front or ever bring it up, it makes the […]

So, have you ever felt like an outsider with the insiders??

I don’t know how it happens, but sometimes I feel like though I have been friends with someone for a long time, I tend to be the outside part of the inner circle.  I am no longer the needy person I was years ago, so if someone doesn’t stay in touch, I don’t try either. […]

So, I was wondering if it is normal to not have a best friend?

I really have not had a best friend in a long, long time. I kinda thought I did a few times. But I haven’t had that giddy feeling of waiting to call someone to tell them about something amazing/depressing/frustrating outside of a romantic partner, in years. I miss having that one woman who could relate […]

So, I am not waiting until the New Year to change…

We all say we are done with people or situations at some point in our time. But I really am. I am the kind of person that goes above and beyond. All of the time. For people who I am cool with, my ex sister-in-law’s kid, for pretty much everyone in my life. But don’t […]