Life is full of ups and downs, but boy do I feel blessed!!

So, I met some jerks. I lost an at home job. I started commuting 2.5 hours a day to a unfulfilling work situation. BUT... I learned a lot I have a job AND... I found the love of my life! No more creepy Match guys who are only looking for sex. No more roller coaster…

So, I went away again for a long time, but for good reason. For the most part…

Wow, I have not written on here in almost 6 months to the date and I am ashamed, baffled and surprised at how much has transpired since I last wrote. I am now in a relationship with a great guy. IT has been official for a few weeks, but we have been dating/talking for over…

So, I didn’t mean to disappear…

So much has been going on! I am busy with "my men"haha and social media editing and selling for #itworks and nanny job and mom duties and home schooling. WHEW! That was a mouth full. So, I have been a bit preoccupied.:) I haven't been on a date with the same guy more than once,…

So, as much as things change, they stay the same

Okay, I am not in my 20's anymore, or my 30's. When I hit 40, I did not feel like it and from all indications from what others say, I look 30. Maybe that is true. But, what is different about being in my 40's, is that I have higher standards. Or I would like…

So, I had a date with a really nice guy…

Okay, I had a date with nice guy. He is almost too nice, which usually is a turn off for me. But he was pretty funny and very interesting and it so cute because he kissed me on the cheek at the end of the night.:) AND...it may be shocking, but I am going on…

So, today has been pretty chill…

I haven't talked to married guy, friend or Alabama guy or lawyer guy. I went to visit a bestie/family member I haven't seen in a year, we ran a couple of errands, and I booked my daughter a decent audition for Monday. So, today was good. I jogged 4 miles and did my #dirty30 workout…

So, I have my first date in years…

So...I have a date with this seemingly cool guy. He did mention his rides a few times too many on the phone and I did roll my eyes a bit, but we'll see. I tend to be so critical of people because it is easier to not form an attachment. Make sense? I talked with…

So, I am trying to stop talking to someone…

I have been talking to my friend on the phone that I found out was married a week ago. Again, the relationship over social media and other communication means was not inappropriate in nature.But, because the person is married and did not speak about it up front or ever bring it up, it makes the…