So, my friend told me yesterday that she had such thoughtful friends and all I could think was- friend? What’s that?

So, here I am. Nearing what is considered to be middle age these days. I grew up in the 80's so, do the math. Anyway, it seems that in matters, I would not care too much at this point. But sometimes I miss having regular and healthy friendships. No whoa-is-me post going on here, it's…

So, I just texted the name of this blog with my man…

So, I gave up my anonymity on here! My soon to be hubby knows my blog name. I have not told one other living soul about this blog. My cat is the only one who has peeped this when I am typing and he is lying beside me. It's not that my blog is 'all…

So yeah, been gone awhile again…

So, I am trying to balance this whole single mom, working mom, chauffeur to camp, communications director for a political campaign, nanny, girlfriend/almost fiancΓ©e, virtual assistant thing. So yeah, I am doing all of that. The single mom/working mom and chauffeur thing is just being a mom. But all the rest of it are different…

So, I have met the love of my life…

So much has happened in the last year. I tried dating and failed. I went out into the work force and failed. My car broke. My ex took me to court for custody and visitation. But, I have started working again for myself and though not where I need to be financially, I am happier…

So, I went away again for a long time, but for good reason. For the most part…

Wow, I have not written on here in almost 6 months to the date and I am ashamed, baffled and surprised at how much has transpired since I last wrote. I am now in a relationship with a great guy. IT has been official for a few weeks, but we have been dating/talking for over…

So, I didn’t mean to disappear…

So much has been going on! I am busy with "my men"haha and social media editing and selling for #itworks and nanny job and mom duties and home schooling. WHEW! That was a mouth full. So, I have been a bit preoccupied.:) I haven't been on a date with the same guy more than once,…

So, I have my first date in years…

So...I have a date with this seemingly cool guy. He did mention his rides a few times too many on the phone and I did roll my eyes a bit, but we'll see. I tend to be so critical of people because it is easier to not form an attachment. Make sense? I talked with…

So, I am trying to stop talking to someone…

I have been talking to my friend on the phone that I found out was married a week ago. Again, the relationship over social media and other communication means was not inappropriate in nature.But, because the person is married and did not speak about it up front or ever bring it up, it makes the…

So, I am all pensive again…

When I don't write for a day or 2 more, it usually means that I am going through something and don't want to talk about it. Or, I am really thinking in depth about a person or situation. Right now, I am back in the romance mood where I am all like-"I should be dating!"…