So, I didn’t mean to disappear…

So much has been going on! I am busy with “my men”haha and social media editing and selling for #itworks and nanny job and mom duties and home schooling. WHEW! That was a mouth full. So, I have been a bit preoccupied.:)

I haven’t been on a date with the same guy more than once, except for Mr. Nice Guy and as we all know that did not work. I am still talking to my out of state friend, but we are still friends, no matter how odd or seemingly inappropriate the relationship is.

I don’t know if I screw up on dates, or if it is just painfully obvious that I am not feeling chemistry once I met them. It is probably a combo of both. I really messed up on a date last week, but with the stiff and boring Homeland Security guy that we was, it was probably a good thing. He felt the need to grill me before the date, but I asked a few questions during the date and he wasn’t having it.

There also may be another little bitty thing that I did that upset him.:) I was in the parking lot walking to the restaurant and saw a guy that I thought was him. So, I turned my head to the side, and he turned his head to the side, and then he crossed the street and walked up and hugged me. I said:” You aren’t him! And he said: “I could tell that you thought you knew me, but I just wanted a hug.” He then went on to ask me out after we started laughing and I really regret not getting his number!! But like a good girl I let him know that I was on the way to a date.:(

Then, I get in the restaurant and a guy walks up and gives me a hug literally the second I walk in. I knew he wasn’t the guy immediately, and I moved back and said: “I don’t know you.” He then went on to explain that he thought I was a colleague. He was super handsome, very nice and totally flirtatious, and we laughed about how all of this would be a really good story. I was waiting for the guy I was supposed to meet and wondering where he was. Then I get a call and he said he was already seated. That annoyed me, but whatever. Then he waved to me to show me where he was.

So, I sit at the table and he droned on about he thought that I was with that guy, and I laughed it off. He clearly had an issue with the fact that that guy was trying to pick me up and the other guy. I told him about the parking lot guy because I thought it was funny. But apparently because he witnessed the other encounter, he was pissed about it. He then went on to say that he wanted to shake the guy’s hand who released me to him or some crap. So we ate dinner and we walked outside and talked a bit after and then he left and didn’t even walk me to my car!

So, I did not hear from him again and though my ego was hurt from not getting a call or pursuit, I didn’t want him anyway because he wasn’t super nice. I just want to be around a kind and decent person who does not take themselves or others too seriously! Is that too much to ask? So, I guess I will try again! Right now, I have just finished deleting 2 guys. One who did not call me on the day of a date we were supposed to have on Saturday until that night after pursuing me for a month. The other guy, a creepy person who was a little inappropriate in initial comments and then wasn’t truthful about what he looked like and I just didn’t like.

Cross your fingers! I am going to a Charity Happy Hour Friday night from 6 to 10. Maybe my Romeo will be there ? Or maybe it’s not my time. Or maybe my dream guy is not in the D.C. area at all! Who knows, we will see! Hope you all have a positive and happy week and I can’t believe as I type this that it is almost April!



image courtesy of Wes Phelan

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I have tons of education and don't use it! I am non-traditional and traditional rolled into one person. I am a Christian, but need work! I am conservative fiscally, but I could care less who someone marries. My favorite things to do are: hang out with my kid, watch movies, read, write, sing, dance, love, live life to the fullest! I love: my kid, my cat, my best guy D, God, rain, chocolate, Christmas, friends, cats, animals in general, honesty, avocados, love, Hallmark channel, iced coffee, Harry Potter, NYC, England, Italy, D.C., Paris and autumn.

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