So, another installment of Wednesday’s Wit, Wisdom and Whatnot…

So, I am not sure if I have major wisdom to impart today, but I will try… My mom used to say this a lot: “beggars can’t be choosers”. And that could not be more true. Of course it doesn’t mean that we are talking about literal beggars per se, but it means don’t be […]

So, I have gotten really good at faking it (not what you may be thinking)

So, I am not talking about in terms of romantic escapades or pretending to be something that I am not. I am talking about removing my feelings about a person/situation and just following their lead. I used to be so wrapped up in people not treating me well, or keeping in touch properly or just […]

So, when I’m dedicated, I am dedicated! Steps how to be…

So, I am doing this hardcore HIIT/strength training with super strict meal planning. I have pretty much done everything to a T except a few extra hundred calories during my one cheat meal of the week. Today is the beginning of week 6. At this point I have lost 15lbs and a little over 9 […]

So, it’s poetry time again:):)

Shattered You’ve been through the storm Your heart has been bruised You didn’t want to trust But in love you can’t choose We met by chance Neither one of us prepared We became fast companions The past could not compare You dove in and tried You gave your all from the start Not knowing what […]

So, another love poem while lying in the bed…

Paired by more than happenstance Through the misty air I could feel your presence. Though my eyes were closed and the waves were crashing hard against the rocks, I knew you were there. Even though there were no plans to have this clandestine meeting, It didn’t surprise me that you traveled a continent away. That’s […]

So, these are some things to do to have a strong connection with your S.O.

So, do you feel in a rut in your relationship? Or if not in a rut, are there times that you wish you were closer or had the feeling of more connectedness? I am by no means a relationship expert, but I definitely know what doesn’t work! :):) After more than a year-and-a-half of having […]

So, today is an open letter to ML…

So, today is an open letter of sorts, to ML (my love). I have mentioned what it meant a lot of posts ago, so if you didn’t know, now you do! I officially met him in September 2016, face to face. We had been friends on social media for at least 4 months and spent […]

So, my friend told me yesterday that she had such thoughtful friends and all I could think was- friend? What’s that?

So, here I am. Nearing what is considered to be middle age these days. I grew up in the 80’s so, do the math. Anyway, it seems that in matters, I would not care too much at this point. But sometimes I miss having regular and healthy friendships. No whoa-is-me post going on here, it’s […]

So, I realized how beautiful life was when I had my child, but since finding love I am even more thankful for every minute…

So, I am NOT a needy female. I have lived on my own since I was early 20s. I would go through dry spells with men and be celibate on and off until I got married and had a kid. I was content alone. My goal was to one day have a life partner and […]

So I would not call myself a feminist, but I’m not anti-feminist either. One thing for sure, I definitely don’t hate men…

So, I respect people who have different opinions and viewpoints, I don’t have to agree with them, but I don’t just outright shut them out.  So a year ago was the infamous pink vagina hat march or rally in D.C.  I was personally appalled by the idea of people wearing them on their heads and […]