So, I just texted the name of this blog with my man…

So, I gave up my anonymity on here! My soon to be hubby knows my blog name. I have not told one other living soul about this blog. My cat is the only one who has peeped this when I am typing and he is lying beside me. It's not that my blog is 'all…

So yeah, been gone awhile again…

So, I am trying to balance this whole single mom, working mom, chauffeur to camp, communications director for a political campaign, nanny, girlfriend/almost fiancΓ©e, virtual assistant thing. So yeah, I am doing all of that. The single mom/working mom and chauffeur thing is just being a mom. But all the rest of it are different…

So, I have met the love of my life…

So much has happened in the last year. I tried dating and failed. I went out into the work force and failed. My car broke. My ex took me to court for custody and visitation. But, I have started working again for myself and though not where I need to be financially, I am happier…

Life is full of ups and downs, but boy do I feel blessed!!

So, I met some jerks. I lost an at home job. I started commuting 2.5 hours a day to a unfulfilling work situation. BUT... I learned a lot I have a job AND... I found the love of my life! No more creepy Match guys who are only looking for sex. No more roller coaster…

So, I went away again for a long time, but for good reason. For the most part…

Wow, I have not written on here in almost 6 months to the date and I am ashamed, baffled and surprised at how much has transpired since I last wrote. I am now in a relationship with a great guy. IT has been official for a few weeks, but we have been dating/talking for over…

So, if a woodpecker has a purpose and a plan, then so must I…

I was sitting at my daughter's Saturday morning class in a funk because of some stupid things I have been doing. I saw a glorious woodpecker on a tree doing his thing. He was doing the job that he was born to do. He hopped from one tree to another, finding a prime tree to…

So, I have my first date in years…

So...I have a date with this seemingly cool guy. He did mention his rides a few times too many on the phone and I did roll my eyes a bit, but we'll see. I tend to be so critical of people because it is easier to not form an attachment. Make sense? I talked with…

So, Valentine’s really do come in all shapes and sizes…

My daughter is my Valentine every year. Even when my husband was around, from the minute my daughter was born, she was my dear little heart. When it became apparent on my daughter's first Valentine's Day that my husband was not a good man, I decided right then and there that I didn't have to…

So, sometimes do you wish to be saved by someone?

I know, I know. I am a modern girl living in a modern world. So why does someone need to save me. They don't need to. I just want them to! I know the feminists out there are banging their heads and thinking I have stepped back into the 50's with this statement. I don't…

So Insomnia,inshomnia what’s the big deal?

I am not sleeping much lately. Too much coffee? Working out late at night? Worried about everything under the sun? Yep. Yep. And yep. I am trying so hard to lose weight and I know that sleep is important. Especially when it comes to weight loss, but sometimes I go through phases where I don't…