Okay, in case I have not mentioned it to you before, I am not divorced. I have been dating for almost a year though. Before you get all judgmental on me, just realize I have been separated physically and geographically from my husband for almost 7.5 years. And, he has been living with someone for 4 years. So, I feel single, but of course not in God’s eyes.
I am so happy to get out of the marriage because he was a huge cheater and liar and not a good dad. He still is all of the above. I feel sorry for his woman now. What a chore she has on her hands. I think losing the health insurance is the scariest part for me because I know how expensive it can be.
That is so sad that after all these years of being connected with this person, that the insurance part is the only part that bothers me.:) I am so thrilled to do this, because my now boyfriend can truly feel like I am all of his. And, I am now not committing adultery in God’s eyes. And that is the most important part to me.
Wow, freedom. Sweet freedom. It has been a long, long, long time coming. So excited and anxious and weirded out. Now I can remarry! I am not bound to this guy spiritually or legally.The covenant will be broken as of this week! Praise God and time to truly start the rest of my fabulous life, filled with love and happiness and promise!
~simply
Dee
Simply Dee in D.C. 
How did you end up waiting 7.5 years? It sounds like he was with someone for 4 and I guess that person didn’t care that he was still married?!?
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I know. It is so so crazy and guess what? We still aren’t divorced because he took me to court for custody and visitation. Which is crazy because he sees her all of the time.
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